I want you to feel the journey of your love story in one day

Whether your audience is the person standing across from you, or 100 faces. You deserve someone who can help you craft the ceremony of your dreams.

The kind of ceremony that brings the space between you and your partner to life. The kind of ceremony that carries the essence of your journey together. If that sounds like what you are looking for, you have come to the right place.

I specialize in heartfelt, wedding ceremonies

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Meaning working with me does not have to stop at the ceremony. As an officiant, I believe in supporting the couple before, during and after the ceremony. I will take the time to get to know you as a couple, and individually. I will do my best to capture the past, ground you in the present and support the direction of your relationship. Told through my words, by your stories.

  • The base price for Three Cups wedding officiating and vow renewal is $400.

    This price includes:

    • Consultation call

    • x2 virtual or in-person follow-up meetings (preferably in-person, travel fee may be required)

    • Custom written wedding ceremony

optional add-ons

  • Do you want me at your rehearsal? I can ensure a stress-free rehearsal experience for couples by efficiently managing practice sessions, allowing them to focus on the joyous moments leading up to their special day.

  • If open to it, I often use natal astrology charts as a tool when supporting the couples I work with. A natal chart is a personalized astrological map based on the precise time and place of an individual's birth, offering insights into their personality, relationships, and life path.

    Utilizing natal charts in working with couples getting married can provide valuable insights into their compatibility, communication styles, and potential challenges. It helps me tailor my service and guidance to enhance the couple's understanding and connection, fostering a more harmonious and meaningful union.

    Do you have to get married to book this service? No! Fill out the inquiry form to book a private reading with me for you, your partner, or both.

  • Pre-wedding coaching prepares couples for marriage by addressing communication, conflict resolution, and goal-setting, ensuring a strong foundation. Post-wedding coaching offers ongoing support, helping couples navigate challenges, maintain a thriving relationship, and adapt to the changes that come with married life.

*prices may vary. please reach out for more information.

  • 1. Initial Inquiry:

    2. Discovery Call:

    • During the call we’ll discuss your vision, values, and expectations.

    • I’ll use this call to get to know you, discuss my approach, and understand your unique story.

    • We’ll also discuss availability, pricing, and any specific ceremony preferences.

    3. Proposal and Agreement:

    • After the discovery call, I’ll send a detailed proposal outlining my services and include ceremony options, pricing (initial deposit), and any additional offerings.

    4. Planning Sessions:

    • We’ll schedule 2-3 planning sessions either in person* or via video call.

    • I’ll use this opportunity to further understand your personalities, preferences, and specific details about the ceremony.

    • We’ll also discuss the ceremony script, vows, and any personalized elements you want to include.

      *If these sessions are to be done in person, a travel fee may be required.

    5. Final Preparations:

    • I’ll confirm logistical details such as the ceremony start time, rehearsal involvement, location, and any special requests.

    • I’ll be sure to provide reassurance and answer any last-minute questions.

    6. The Ceremony:

    • I’ll officiate the wedding ceremony with the personalized touches discussed during the planning sessions.

    • I’ll ensure a seamless and heartfelt experience for you and your guests.

Don’t see a service you’re looking for? Let’s talk!

As your officiant,

I promise to authentically tell your story.

I promise to ground you.

I promise to laugh with you.

I promise to cry with you.

And most importantly, I promise to gift you a ceremony you will never forget.

  • Yes, while cherishing the essence of tradition, I also recognize the richness that cultural diversity adds to our lives. My ceremonies reflect the unique blend of these influences – a celebration of love that pays homage to the heritage of the West while embracing the colorful tapestry of cultures that make each union distinct.

    Ceremonies longer than 30 min. may invoke an extra fee.

  • Fill out my inquiry form and I’ll get back to you ASAP to let you know if i’m available.

  • Yes! While I’m located in Colorado, I am willing to travel to your destination. However, travel fees may be added if the destination is outside 40 miles of my residence in Denver..

  • Yes! If the couple is open to it, I often use natal astrology charts as a supplemental service while supporting the couples I work with.

    By incorporating synastry and astrology into coaching sessions, couples have the opportunity to deepen their self-awareness, enhance their understanding of each other, and develop practical strategies for building a harmonious and fulfilling relationship. It adds a unique layer to the coaching process, providing a holistic and personalized approach to supporting couples on their journey of growth and connection.

  • First, get in touch! From here I’ll send you a questionnaire and we’ll schedule a discovery call to align. We’ll then come to agreement, sign a contract, and begin the planning process. For final preparations, we’ll meet again and ensure we’re on the same page. The last and most important part will be your ceremony.

  • Yes! Love is timeless, vow renewals are welcomed and encouraged.

LOVE NOTES

  • ANGELA & DARREN

    “Trenna is a beautiful soul on both the inside and out. We truly felt honored that she officiated our wedding ceremony. She took the time to talk with my husband and me, to hear our story, and know what was important to us as well as special memories we shared. Her words were so eloquent and heart felt. A year later, I still have them saved and read them from time to time. Not only did she perform our ceremony perfectly, she stood with us through the blizzard that was pouring down on us, smiling the entire time. Despite the cold and snow, I couldn’t imagine our day being more perfect and Trena played such an important part of it. At the end of our time together, I felt like I had a new friend as well.”

  • AMANDA & STEPHANIE

    “As we began planning our wedding we knew we had an ultimate goal of unity and love. As in our relationship we value connection and knew going into the planning that we would only accept someone to marry us if they held the same values and compassion.

    Trenna was more than helpful and took the weight of the ceremony off our shoulders entirely.

    We cannot recommend Trenna enough as her energy, connection, and dedication to her people is remarkable and unforgettable.

    As in planning a wedding, we had a constant worry about the follow through of our “vendors” (some were just vendors, some grew into friends) as we were getting married in the middle of the woods. Trenna not only assured us during the entire planning phase of her presence and willingness to help; but the day of the wedding could not have been more carefree and loving due to her continued support and professionality.

    We can’t thank you enough Trenna. We also can’t recommend you enough and wish you all the best in your journey to expand and grow.”

  • SYDNEY & HUNTER

    “Where Trenna, do I even begin? Thank you is not enough. All I have heard from everyone is how beautiful a ceremony we had – that is all you! The entire experience was so much less stressful than I had imagined. You made it run so much smoother. I wanted unique, I wanted personal, and I wanted pagan. You delivered the ceremony of my dreams and Hunter’s wishes. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts.”

  • TONYA & BRIAN

    “We cannot adequately express how incredibly pleased we are with every aspect of Trenna's officiant service. We didn't know her before planning our wedding, but after connecting with her we felt like we had known her forever. She is warm, funny, professional, and sincere. She took the time to learn every detail of our love story before writing a custom ceremony script for us that was exquisite. She tailored the ceremony to our style and comfort level and went out of her way to help make every detail perfect. Smiles all around. Tears filled the room. She was a very special part of our wedding - we would highly recommend her to any couple wanting an exceptional wedding experience.”

  • MEGAN SHIVELY SIMPSON

    “When our officiant dropped out last minute I panicked, but once Trenna stepped in I realized it was actually the biggest blessing. Trenna has more than just a way with words. She is able to truly see both individuals and couples, and brilliantly captures their essence in her poetry. She was so easy to work with and perfectly blended both modern and traditional elements into our ceremony. My family and friends could not stop raving about her, and many told me she was the best officiant they had ever witnessed. So many things went wrong in planning our wedding, but thanks to Trenna it was better than we ever could have imagined.”

  • CLAY SIMPSON

    “10/10 - I absolutely recommend that you give yourself the privilege of having Trenna as your wedding officiant! While the majority of our wedding prep was somewhat chaotic, we always found peace and solice working with Trenna. Not once throughout the entire process did she lose her cool, and cool and calm is exactly what we needed. Trenna was there for me just as equally as she was for my wife. I had plenty of questions, and Trenna always had the perfect answers. She is a joy to work with, gets to know you on an intimate level, and is incredible at sharing the most beautiful parts of your relationship at the altar. I would be surprised if everyone at your wedding doesn't immediately want to become her friend. She's a true friend to me and by far the best wedding officiant I've had the pleasure of witnessing and working with. There's no doubt in my mind that you'll love Trenna too.”

  • BLAKE BALLARD PHOTOGRAPHY

    “As a wedding photographer who has witnessed many ceremonies. Trenna is the first person I would recommend as an officiant. She is an old soul who takes the time to get to know each couple and personalize one of, if not, the most important days of their lives. Her ability to bring so much love into the ceremony has amazed me.”

Three Cups is a supporter of marriage equality and is LGBTQIA+ affirming. Three Cups is against any hatred based on race, color, religion, creed, sex, or sexual orientation.